What a wakeup call did I get when I signed up to this site and they asked about my goal. Initially I had put my goal as 7 llbs heavier than what it is now. However it showed that I was still above the recommended BMI. How did I get here (that is how do I accept larger BMIs as acceptable and how on earth did I become so overweight?)? I used to be a long distance runner who was horrified when I was over 130llb (because it slowed me down). Yeah I know, pregnancy, back problems, work stress, insert more excuses here. I ‘accepted’ the weight (which is healthy for a positive self image - isnt it?). What a fine line between having a positive self image while trying to achieve a healthier weight.